Wife's Nightmare.

[Painted Crow]

My wife wanted to know if anyone could look over her dream and possibly give her an interpretation.

I work up about 5:30 in the morning to her mumbling and crying out loud. I rolled over and held her in my arms to calm her as I whispered repeatably to her "it's not real".

She later told me that alot of bad stuff was happening in her dream, but what she was upset about was she was being held down on a hospital style bed and being stripped while she was forced to watch me have sex try to get her sister pregnant. It really shook her up.

I want to say I have I theory on what she could have dreamed about. But i want to see what some of your theories. I will say that she and I are two peas in a pod. I would never sleep with anyone besides her, and I wouldn't with her sister.

[watershield]

I suspect that in her subconscious she is seeing some similarity between her relationship with you and her sisters relationship with whom ever there may be in her life. The sex act is typically how we rationalize those similarities. Often, we see our parents having sex in our dreams. This can be upsetting or disconcerting, but that's how we translate the similarities of waking life.

As I was reading this however the thought came to mind that her sister may be having trouble conceiving and they may have broached the subject of you making a "donation toward the problem". If that's the case the way to ask you could be at issue or the idea of you doing it could bother her more than she had originally thought.

[Painted Crow]

Thanks Watershield, her sister recently (May) had a child. I was thinking that subconsciously that if she doesn't have a child with me, I'll go to someone else. But then why her sister? Probably because her sister is (in my wife's mind) more attractive that her. I find them both attractive in many ways, but her little sister is like my little sister. I don't see her in that way.

I was also going to say about us is that we haven't decided if we want to have a child. She has a pelvic bone like her mother and is afraid that if she tries to give a natural birth that it may harm the child. She's scared to do it the other way because she has (in her words) "...seen myself die while giving birth". So I think that she's afraid that if I want one and she doesn't, I go to someone else. Which will never happen, she is the love of my life. I know how other women can be and I am grateful to have someone like her in my life.

I could be wrong on my interpretations, but I'm not wrong how I love her. Thanks for the input!