"Friends" At School.

[Jen]

((((HUGS Jacklyn [J1NXX]))))

Nice new name and new photo!

[Jacklyn [J1NXX]]

Aww, thanks hedge! *hugs*

[NozUK]

Yeah well being used to that at home won't help for making her great outside of home with people and friends and life generally. But she's gonna run into a situation where whining and complaining won't get her what she wants, and the way she is with people will seriously come back to bite her in the ass.

So you can go on, try to get some distance, just walk away from her and not stick around for her while she's like that - you might not be able to change her but there's nothing binding you to put up with it. Then if you do that, you can just carry on and know that eventually she is gonna get hers cause you can't just go around being like that with people. The sooner she learns that and grows up, the better for all your friends.

[Jacklyn [J1NXX]]

NozUK:
I think that too. =)
Thanks for your advice. *hugs*

[NozUK]

Heh no problem - I've known a multitude of different dysfunctional friendships either through my own experience or that of people I've known through high school/college. Hope everything works out for you anyway.

[Jacklyn [J1NXX]]

Me too. =)

[wolfsbane00010]

My whole group of friends have some kind of psycological problems, but I love them all the same.

[sugarcharmz]

Hey Jacklyn, yeah, sorry for jumping in a topic late, lol. And I'll tell you what. I'm a Junior in high school (yeah.. a freakin' sage! =D). Well, I'm home-schooled, but there's hardly a difference in the friend area (except that we don't see each other every day, lol). Anyway. You make and lose friends throughout your high-school, college, and life-career. Some people hang on to childish immaturity longer than others, and it is something one learns how to breath in and let go. Throughout MY high-school career, I've been "besties" and "enemies" with so many different people who i thought would never turn out to be so. Just life. If you want my suggestion on what to do about your friend: even though it's not really the fairest, I think you should stop hanging out with the individual(s) that causes so much hype. You don't know that craziness in your life. The school-year is still young, it's not too late to start hanging out with some of the other kids at school. =) Also, when things don't change, they stagnate. Now, I don't know how often you hang out with these girls (or boys) (or.. its), but maybe there's a change that needs to happen.
Believe me, things are no more roses for us home-schoolers than anybody else, lol. Lots of love!