Two guy dream

[wolfsbane00010]

I had a really wierd dream, and I KNOW IT MEANS SOMETHING! First, background history, cue music!

-Ok, it is summer and I live on the highway with friggin' construction going on, so I can't go nowhere. But last week there was a picnic and I saw a guy I had been really good friends with. There had been some inconvinient moments before and everyone thinks we like LIKE each other, but he has a horrible problem of just saying things before he thinks and hurtings peoples feelings, I am the only person he really doesn't do that to and that makes me feel special ;D But I am helping him with it. This is one of the first times we had seen each other all summer and so the one friend I was with left us 'alone' we talked about some stuff then I had to go.

-DREAM TIME- Ok, in the dream I was just coming back to school, I could see all my friends and everything was great, next instant it was after school and he got on my bus, but he didn't go on my bus normally. THEN!!! A second guy got on the bus, and it was him! Basically, two of the same guy like twins, but the first was him in his normal, non-thinking self and the other was him with his hair combed and dressed up nice and he was smarter and nice to everyone. I felt torn like I had to pick between the two, but I couldn't, then I woke up WHAT DOES IT MEAN?!?!?!?!?!?

-Sorry, I'm tired ;D

[watershield]

Seems to me your seeing him as he is and as you want him to be if you could make him over.
Your not really accepting him, your changing him to fit your mold.
Not sure if that's good or bad as I think most females do it to the guy their attracted to.
The only question I have is, will you still be attracted to him if you do change him?

[moondaughter]

My dear, I have been in your shoes many a time, not necessarily a dream, but same situation. To me, I agree with ws. But I have some theroies.

Theory #1
I have done it; you are seeing him as other people see him (maybe how your friends see him?) But then you are also seeing him as either what you want him to be, or seeing him as what you know he can be. The guy that I liked for three years was not liked bu all of my friends, and at first that totally changed the way that I saw him.

Theory #2
You say that people think that you like each other? This has happened to me too. When this happened, I almost wanted to be attracted to that person, because people said that I should. I have gladly gotten out of doing, but before I didn't even know that I was doing that! People telling me that I should like a person made me look at the person differently, and indeed change their normal thoughts, actions and general "look." Hope this helped you out dear!!!