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Post by Jen on Aug 19, 2005 0:52:47 GMT 1
Say you're divining for someone and you see something bad happening to them or you have a premonition, do you tell that person?
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Post by Really Proud Dad on Aug 19, 2005 8:54:22 GMT 1
Wow, thats a toughie,
I think I would have to tell them, even if it is bad news i would feel that i would owe them at least that
Matt
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Post by Goth on Aug 19, 2005 9:18:59 GMT 1
It would all depend on what the bad news was. If I had a pemonition of their death through an illness, I would tell them to get checked out by their GP, especially if they were feeling under the weather. I wouldn't mention the death part though.......I think auto suggestion is a powerful thing.
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Post by angelis on Aug 19, 2005 22:48:01 GMT 1
Well I would warn them but not tell them out right. Just a warning on what they could do to avoid it or watch out for it happening.
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Post by Rich on Aug 22, 2005 20:37:38 GMT 1
tell them as otherwise it would not have been revealed and because if you do then can then figure out the best way around it so if they arn't happy with you telling them then tell them at least that you have given them the chance to prepare!
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Post by blackenedrose on Aug 23, 2005 21:17:19 GMT 1
I would NEVER tell someone if I saw a death. It can blight their whole lives. For example, if you saw someone getting run over, they may not go outside and it would ruin their lives.
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Post by angelis on Aug 24, 2005 5:15:47 GMT 1
YEs but if they did not know there time was short than how would they live there life. You don't need to tell them how they are going to go. Just give them insight that life for them should be well lived and respected each day and they should make the most of it. You don't have to come out and tell them they are going to get hit by a car or die the next year.
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Post by blackenedrose on Aug 24, 2005 10:51:22 GMT 1
You do not need to tell them that they are going to die to make them live their lives fully. Words of warning - 'be careful when crossing the street in the near future' - are OK, but I believe that nothing is going to change it if they are meant to die. You may as well just help them live their lives to the full anyway.
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Post by angelis on Aug 25, 2005 1:20:05 GMT 1
So true. But if we keep beating this topic into the ground us both are going to be going at this for a while. It is just that life can't be held back from anyone. Even the poorest people always find a way to survive so that next day will come and bring a smile to there face that they have seen the next sunrise.
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Post by sillywitch on Sept 26, 2005 22:46:46 GMT 1
I had readings done by one wonderful man in particular who had a way of telling bad news that made it OK. First of all, his entire energy was the warmest I have ever experienced. Walking into a room with him was like being given a great big hug by a favorite Uncle! I think if you are doing readings for someone it is important to cultivate this kind of energy, work on projecting that kind of warmth. In many ways you are like a therapist, giving people info that can seriously impact their lives.
Secondly, whenever he saw something bad he would tell you in a productive way. I took notes while different friends had readings from him and witnessed this many times. He wouldn't say "You will have serious heart disease." but rather "Be careful of what you eat and make sure to exercise because I see that you could have heart problems later on. Avoid them by changing things now." Or he would say to make sure to get regular PAP tests after a certain age because he saw the potential for problems, but they could be avoided if caught early.
I really liked the way he did things and hope that I will be so sympathetic if I begin to do regular readungs for people.
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Post by circemoon on Sept 27, 2005 0:33:50 GMT 1
Hi sillywitch,
that reader sounds like a pro. I try to do exactly that as well as it is a great responsibility not only for the client/querent but for the reader as well. Sow positive!
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Post by VeryStrange on Feb 25, 2008 4:40:49 GMT 1
this is why i don't like to do readings for family or friends. although i can't refuse to. if something bad came up i would flat out tell them thats what i saw.
if it was a stranger i would tell them in a subtler way.
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Post by kuotetsu on Feb 25, 2008 6:43:08 GMT 1
Instead of telling the Bad news, I try to give precautions. As i believe it will make them panic.
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Post by addalaide on Mar 4, 2008 9:02:59 GMT 1
This has heppend to me already. I was doing a tarot reading for 2 friends and thay both agreed thay wanted to hear eitchothers, so i did the ones and it showed up okish and the other one that last card was horable her relashonship was ganna end very badly ( witch it did and it was her falf like the tarot said it was going to be ) and so i just opend up the tarot book and told her to read this to herself and if she wanted me to i whould read it outload to the other girl. I told her that this was just what whould happen if she dosnt change thing, that it can end up turning out good. She didnt change, her future didnt change.
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Post by muladzh on Dec 28, 2008 20:39:46 GMT 1
To resurrect an old post - some years ago, I saw a tragedy about to take place, told the authorities, and spent 3 days in jail until they figured out that I had nothing to do with it. Years ago I saw the death of someone, instigated a health regime for them, helped them change their life around - they improved their health, and their family's, but still died when I knew they were going to.
I feel that if we see something negative, we should ponder long and hard about how to tell the subject - Not all things are set in stone, and if you can aim a different concept towards somebody, maybe the future will pan out differently. Though I have had times when it happened anyway, there are many occasions I can think of that the future changed.
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